should be more than just love
Now I come to understand why some parents insist their children to marry to the persons they choose. They have been in marriage life, and they know exactly that in marriage it needs more than just “love”.
However, for someone who is blindly in love, she/he will find the best reason to marry the person she/he loves.
Marriage is not only about how much you love each other, how much you say “i love you”, how much you kiss, how often you holding hands, and how much you willing to cry for the one you love.
For me in marriage, besides it needs love, it needs commitment, responsibility, understanding and knows about the meaning of life. Satu lagi yang paling penting, khusus nya untuk saya, yaitu being ikhlas.
I just got married, it means I’m new at this level. I’m still learning, my husband also still learning, its not easy, but its should be fun. That is why, being ikhlas its important.
For my papi .. . I hope, what ever you do in life… you understand very well what is it about,.. not just because you love me,.. or because you want to do for me only,.. but please do it for your self too.
I will always love you what ever happen.
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Posted in Uncategorized on April 18th, 2010 by niningss | | 4 Comments
